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Letters to My Sisters, part 2 of 4

Posted by James MacDonald on August 21, 2007 10:55 PM | Comments (1)

Today's word is for everyone who has prayed for months, that have led to years, that have led to decades, for a loved one to come to Christ. For some of you it's for your mom or a brother you've prayed--or a co-worker or a neighbor, or your adult child or good friend. You want nothing more than to see them turn to Christ for the forgiveness of their sins and to receive by grace through faith God's gift of salvation. You love them so much you ache for them, knowing their certain eternal destination if they continue to stiffen their neck to the gospel. You love them so much you keep telling them--even when it appears they're not listening or don't care.

I'm writing today to you who are beginning to feel weary in doing good. You might be tempted to think, Nothing seems to change and I feel like I've said it all before.

Here's the encouragement: Don't be silenced. Keep on doing it.
I know it hurts your heart to keep caring and hoping and sharing--but don't give up.

Earlier this week I shared with you the first in a series of four letters that I wrote to my two sisters-in-law many years ago. The first letter explained how much God loves them. Today's letter explains the sin problem that we all have and how our sin separates us from God. Deep inside, we all know we have areas of sin that we cannot erase from the secret, hidden parts of our heart. Today's letter just puts it on the table.

So for all of you who have prayed, and cried, and pleaded with the Lord on behalf of someone you love, after you've done all those things, do this:
. Keep doing it.
. Even when you've said it before
. Even when prayer doesn't seem to be make any difference
. Even when their repeated rejection feels personal
. Even when you've done everything you know to do to show them the
love and mercy of a forgiving God
. And still, they walk away

Kathy and I wanted nothing more than to see these two girls we love with all our hearts turn their hearts to God. But we still had another 15 years to wait . . .

Dear Tara and Nora:

I hope you're having a good week; I have sure been praying that you would. Did you get my first letter? Have you been thinking about how much God loves you? It's true--He does love you, yet like every great truth, there is a "but."

Scripture: Isaiah 59:2, "BUT" your iniquities have separated you from your God; and your sins have hidden His face from you so that He will not hear.

Story: Imagine that you are invited to play a concert with the greatest symphony orchestra in the world. Violins, cellos, flutes, clarinets a host of other instruments from all over the world will perform in perfect harmony to create a majestic sound such as has never been heard before. Imagine that you are scheduled to play first french horn but a strong case of bronchitis has you winded and weak. You know you can't play your part perfectly but you don't want to miss the concert, so you keep the sickness quiet and take your seat as the final warm-up begins. From almost the first note you see from the corner of your eye that the conductor knows something is wrong. He asks for the person out of tune to identify himself but you are too afraid. The curtain will go up and the concert will begin so the conductor begins to walk up and down the rows looking frantically for the offensive instrument. As he enters your row, you try to play your best but realize you will not be able to hide your problem from the famous conductor. As he approaches your chair, a chill runs down your spine as your eyes meet his and you know that he knows. "OUT!!" he shouts; you cannot play. No matter how good you have played in the past, no matter how much the conductor may respect your abilities and appreciate you personally, he has no choice but to cast you out.

Sin will not be part of heaven. Nothing will be allowed to destroy the harmony that God has planned for us to enjoy there. Before each of us dies we must deal with our sin according to God's plan or we will be cast from his presences for all eternity. Yes, God does love us, but we will never experience that love until our 'sin problem' is dealt with. Romans 3:23, 6:23, For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. The wages of sin is death.

It's hard for me to think of you as having a sin problem. I have known and loved you since you were just a little girl. I remember playing Cookie Monster with you and your sister on the couch. I remember coaxing you to go to bed, and staying with you till your breathing deepened as your dreams began. I know you've had your struggles but I see the circumstances that have made things so hard for you. I think you have played the cards you've been dealt in some pretty amazing ways. In my eyes you are no "sinner"--you are a wonderful young woman trying to do something good with her life.

Sorry to say though, I don't get a vote on who goes to heaven and who doesn't. In the end it won't matter much what I think of you. In God's eyes, you are a sinner; we both are, everyone is, and NO amount of human goodness will ever change that fact. Deep inside, I'm sure you know that you have not kept God's laws perfectly, that you have areas of sin in your life that you cannot erase.

James 2:10, For whoever shall keep the whole law, yet shall stumble in one point, he is guilty of all.

Tara/Nora, there are many things that I can learn from you; I hope you will learn this from me. There is only one true God, there is only one heaven, there is only one way to get there, and there is only one lifetime to figure it out. The longer you wait to deal with your sin problem, the less likely that you ever will. Next week when I write to you, I will try to explain from the Bible exactly how to deal with this problem of sin. Of course no one can get help for a problem they don't believe they have, so I want to leave you a few questions to think about:

** Can you admit to yourself that you have done things that break God's law?
** Do you ever feel guilt about those things?
** Do you think that being a good person can ever erase the wrong you've done?
** What plan do you have to remove the sin that separates you from God?

Hebrews 9:27, It is appointed unto man once to die and after this comes judgment.

We love you and your sister very much and have written her the same letter. Maybe you could both talk about it. Kathy and I will be praying that God will continue to grow within you a desire to know Him and experience all the joy and goodness that He longs to bring into your life. Feel free to call if you want to talk.

Much love to you,

James


Comments

Posted by: Tory | August 23, 2007 08:03 AM

Hi Pastor James,

I appreciate you posting such a personal experience of sharing God's word. I am praying daily for my husband's salvation and this eloquent, yet clear, example of witnessing is inspiring to me. If I may ask, how did Tara and Nora initially respond to these letters?

In Him-
Tory



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